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Sun Signs

2011-01-17T11:17:00.000+05:30

To learn the astrology and to predict the future one most have detailed knowledge of three things namely sun signs, planets and 12 houses of the Kundli (Horoscope) or Lagna Chart.

First we will start with the Sun signs, as we all know there are 12 sun signs

1. Mesh/Aries
2. Vrishab/Taurus
3. Mithun/Gemini
4. Kark/Cancer
5. Singh/Leo
6. Kanya/Virgo
7. Tula/Libra
8. Vrishchik/Scorpio
9. Dhanu/Sagittarius
10. Makar/Capricorn
11. Kumbh/Aquarius
12. Meen/Pisces

Let us talk about these Sun Signs and the Characteristics of these. If you don’t know what is your actual sun sign then look at your horoscope and check the number written in the house where the moon is. Suppose Moon is situated in the house with number written 1 (not necessarily in the first house) then your sun sign is Mesh Aries.

Characteristics of Sun Signs

1 Mesh/Aries:- This Sun sign is male, represents the East direction, Fire Element, Unstable, also represents forehead, aggressive, less charming, the Kshtriya Varna, with all balanced limbs, Least children bearing, Daring, Pride and kind to friends.

2 Vrishab/Taurus:- This sun sign is female, represents the South direction, Stable, Element Earth, Cool nature, least charming, Powerful at night, Fair complexion, Good in speaking, moderately children bearing, Good doers, Vaishya Varna, and not so much energetic, Best in worldly matters, self centered, Wise in work, also represents, throat, cheeks and mouth,

3 Mithun/Gemini:- This sun sign is male, represents the West direction, Both Stable and Unstable, Element Air, Dry, Good in speaking, Moderately child bearing, Slippery/smooth, Shudra Varna, Educated and creativeness, Powerful in daytime and a less energetic body. Represents shoulders, arms and hands.

4 Kark/Cancer:- This is a female sun sign, represents North direction, Element Water. Unstable, Complexion White and Red, decent, Many children bearing, Powerful in night, always putting efforts to succeed in material world, shy, stable workers, punctual and represent the chest, tummy and kidneys.

5 Singh/Leo:- This is a male sun sign, represents East Direction, Element Fire, Stable, Powerful in Day time, Complexion yellowish, Nature is a little rude or we can say dry, healthy body, Kshtriya Varna, less children bearing, travel lover, just like Mesh/Aries sun sign this is also Daring, Pride and kind to friends but with a little more sense of freedom and Independence.

6 Kanya/Virgo:- This is a female sun sign, represents the South direction, Element Earth, Unstable/Stable, powerful in Night time, Less child bearing Nature is cool, and behaves much like Mithun/Gemini Educated and creativeness but more focused on self progress and pride, Represents stomach.

7 Tula/Libra:- This is male sun sign, represents the West direction, Element Air, Unstable, Powerful in Daytime, Less children bearing, Dark complexion, Shudra Varna, Cruel nature, Thoughtful, knowledge loving, work-editor, politician and represent the limbs below navel.

8 Vrishchik/Scorpio:- This is female sun sign, represents the North direction, Element Water, Powerful in Night, Many children bearing, Brahmin Varna, They are Egoist, proud and conceit, stubborn, strong determined, outspoken, represents height and genetic organs.

9 Dhanu/Sagittarius:- This is male sun sign, represents the East Direction, Element Fire, powerful in Day, Complexion is golden and bright, Stable/Unstable, Strong built, Kshitriya Varna, Less Child bearing, They are authoritarians, compassionate and dignified, represents leg joins and thighs.

10 Makar/Capricorn:- This is female sun sign, represents the South direction, Element Earth, Powerful in night, Unstable, Vaishya Varna, less energetic, aspire for higher positions in life.

11 Kumbh/Aquarius:- This is male sun sign, represents the West direction, Element Air, Powerful in Day, Stable, Nature is dry, cruel and a bit rude, Shudra Varna Moderate child bearing, thoughtful, calm, inventor, and represents internal organs of the tummy.

12 Meen/Pisces:- This is a female sun sign, represent the North direction, Element Water, Powerful in Night, Brahmin Varna, Good behavior, Kind, and Donator represents legs.

People born in the sun signs of Earth element and Water are generally friendly with each other. Same is also true for people born in sun signs of element Air and Fire.

Occupational Effects

People born in sun sign of Fire element are daring, talented and hard workers they perform well in jobs related with mental abilities and machines.

People born in sun sign of Earth element are good politicians do well in things related with manual/ physical labor and earth like, agriculture and allied activities construction of buildings etc.

People born in sun sign of Air element are artists, writers, literary people, journalists, editors, publishers, consultants, editors and agent or brokers.

People born in sun sign of Water element are most of the time have unstable nature and mind, good for jobs needing foreign travel, Shipping and in industries of liquid goods manufacturing like, oil, spirit and beverages.

By the sun signs you get a slight idea of the nature of a person the detailed knowledge and selection of occupation needs attention on different aspects as well.

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2010-04-20T18:39:00.003+05:30

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Bounce BACK

2010-04-03T18:33:00.003+05:30

An year ago one of my superior line managers was imparting training to me and few other colleagues of mine. He deliberately tried to annoy, scold all of us one by one. Females are found to be less emotionally stronger then males and he succeeded them in off tracking form their subject of Presentation.

Later I asked him why he did so the answer was “I wish you people to be stronger and bounce back to normal mental state after experiencing some bad event in life”

“Bouncing Back”

I am practicing this from past one year and have been really benefited a lot.
In situations like:-
Scolding from parents or superiors,
Having gone through emotional distress in relationship,
Being physically injured etc.

OR

ANY OTHER UNFAVORABLE SITUATION OF LIFE

I tried to Bounce Back to normalcy immediately.
Now I find myself more balanced, able to take wiser decisions.

And most importantly

My relationship with all people around me has improved many folds.

Learning from Rancho of 3 idiots.

2010-01-26T19:19:00.000+05:30

Most of us have definitely seen the movie 3 Idiots. The movie has made us laugh, cry and it made us think over our current education system and society. But according to me the most important message I was able to comprehend was
“ALL IZZ WELL”
In general people think by saying this line you just cool down yourself.
Cooling down yourself is very important but more important is to take the next step.
After thinking patiently, take a wise step to solve the problem or we can say to fight with problem.
According to me the person who behaves wild in a war is not brave but the person who doesn’t loose his ground and remain calm in adverse situation is brave.

Gandhi & Mandela please reincarnate

2010-01-25T15:46:00.002+05:30

Mahatma Gandhi and Nelson Mandela raised their voices and people from society to fight against a social evil of all times and that was the racial discrimination.
The discrimination which divided people on basis of the color of skin. Fairer the color superior you are. Superior people enjoyed privileges far from approach of the inferior ones but was provided on the cost of inferior ones only.
Today we all know that it is wrong to discriminate people on basis of color we are all equal to each other and enjoy same rights and freedom.
Freedom gained by us helped in socio-economic development of countries and people.
There were jobs and money which improved our living standard with making life easy broadening our approach to world and narrowing our minds.
This economic development do has benefits economically. But do they have benefits socially?
How many economic Mahatmas and Mandela are going to help a poor child lying on road? Leave aside dying and lying are we able to going to eat dinner in a community restaurant with our family?
Do we allow our children to play with children from lower income group?
No. Why we say they are ill mannered. But my findings say not all are ill mannered.
This discrimination has started developing in minds of many. You can see it flourishing in any park, school, hospital, bank, post office. Any where there are people.
Not only we discriminate strangers but also our kinsmen, if there is a large family get together I have seen people boycotting the ones who are not good financially.
I am sure this kind of behavior must have happened with everyone.
There is an alarm ringing before the fire goes on. It is better to improve ourselves before there is a rising against economic discrimination.

secret of andrew carnegie

2010-01-21T20:54:00.000+05:30

To succeed In anything in life whether it is your job, exam, family or anything what you require is a strong belief in self and cause.
Why we always say you go miles ahead with a great team?

More people on your side = More Belief in you and your cause.
This means
More belief = More godly help.

So if you want to succeed in life connect with as many people as you can.
Share Your cause, Your Success and Your failure with everyone who loves you or he/she is connected with you any positive form.

What is the benefit?
They will start thinking for your good.
You success.
They should think so much that it enters into their sub conscious mind.

Above mentioned line is very important

Here I am going to explain why it is more important:-

Somewhere I read that God Lives in our heart.

To be precise He lives in your Sub conscious

Whatever you throw in your subconscious is transmitted to earth which is retransmitted to galactic center or Universal center (wherever it is)

That place can be assumed as a processing centre. Or Retransmission centre.

Your information or messages thrown by your subconscious mind are processed or we can say transmitted back to relevant humans subconscious via route of sun and earth.

Strength of positive signals are directly proportional to your faith and belief in your cause.

So if you are alone person on job less signals to your success.
More people on job, more stronger the belief. More are your chances of being successful Stronger is belief sooner is success.

Andrew Carnegie who was popularly known as steel king of America, who was famous for his conversion of sick units into best profit booking sites. Admitted that I know very less about production of steel but I know one thing how to make people believe in themselves and connecting them to their cause.

Why we Develop sense and Logic of right and wrong?

2010-01-20T19:25:00.001+05:30

As a child all of us spent a very good time with our grown ups like Grandfather, Grandmother, Uncles and Aunts.
We enjoy their warm and safe laps. Sometimes the particular pullover or coat worn by them becomes a mark of their identity for us. And we develop sweet memories with these identities.
After school and playground we are resting in arms of those pullovers and coats until we fall asleep and mom comes and takes us to bed. Most interesting things are their stories, their life experiences which we want to hear again and again.
We don’t mind being friend with someone 40 years older then us.
We hand over all our pocket money to their safe hands which protects them from our competitor siblings.
We prefer our grand parents over our parents.
Whenever we make a new friend we introduce him first to our grandparents

But slowly-slowly as we start growing and learning new things we find that lot of things we did with our grandparents or elders are not logically right.
We think their old pullovers and coats are something very very messy and stinky, Avoid touching it.
Their talks or stories are use less junk heard over and over millions of times why don’t they understand that this is 20th century. Things aren’t quite the same as they were earlier
May be we start having different arguments over things.
We want to do same but from different means.
We find it weird to have people 10 years older to be friend with leave a side being friend with our grand parent.
Tension grows on their question “Dear Son how much money do you have now with you?” What do they have to do with my finances?
It becomes difficult to handle mom and dad. Oh God why we have grand parents?
But we try to hide our friends from our grand parents.
Why we develop sense and logic which kills our eternal pleasure.

And we realize all these mistakes years after we loose them. But there is no U-turn.
So I request you all, please stop using your sense and logic start loving what and how you have.

Remember there is no U-Turn

Stop Having sympathy start finding solution

2010-01-18T16:40:00.000+05:30

Railway minister Mamta Banerjee announced concessional trains for Unemployed youth.
This will I think encourage Unemployment.
And will this benefit will reach its true needy s?
Is it written on face of every individual whether he or she is unemployed or not?
People doesn't matter unemployed or employed will travel from these trains putting unnecessary burden on Rail Budget.
This is the consequences of having sympathy.
Why not mamta ji start some project which may provide employment to youth. So that people also earn money with the progression of nation?

The Little Difference in Music These Days & Those Days.

2009-11-16T12:24:00.003+05:30

Yesterday I happened to hear an old song sung by The Queen of Melody Lata Mangeshkar.
I paid my full attention to the song in an analytical mood. Just after that I heard a popular number these days.
And I am going to share my findings here from the ears of a common man

Old Songs (Old Times)
Live recording with orchestra.
Entire responsibility of Popularizing the song was mainly on shoulders of the Singer.
How he/she sung will decide the fate.
If a musician had to experiment he can by adding new instruments and lot of hard work on composition of song.

New Songs (These Days Age of Technology.)
Musician can add and remove instruments from the song at his consent. Singer may or may not enjoy the entire responsibility of Popularizing the song. It depends upon the over all sound effects. Now at anytime Music Director can change the entire sound.
I am not trying to say that these days singers are not competent. Yes they are but the benchmark of good and best should be more strict.

Difference between Average and Best

2009-11-08T16:25:00.000+05:30

There are always 2 kinds of people in every field. Average and Best.
We have many musicians but A.R. Rahman is only one.
Only One Sachin and many other average cricketers.
Only one good doctor is there in a city and others are average.
Only a few good painters rest just finish their strokes.
I questioned myself why only few are chosen one?
Why all painters don’t become popular?
Why are not all artists gaining name and fame?
Whatever work you do is a kind of art form.
And someone once said art is like worshiping god.
Art is like meditation.
More you absorb yourself in art More you go near to him
Where there is no impurity, no pains, only joy is there, only selfless love is there and every heart welcomes purity, joy and selfless love.
These few chosen ones are those extra ordinary humans who have taken art to their hearts.
Once Zakir Hussain the great Tabla Maestro said about his father that he is completely drowned in his work.
Greatness is art flowing out of you helplessly every now and then.
Sharing THAT divine joy and love.

FootPrints in Sand

2009-10-09T09:34:00.001+05:30

Once upon a time in deserts of Sahara there lived a young man who was known to be a bit lazy. One day his mother told him to fetch water from a nearby well. With a pot in his hands he reached to the well and there he saw a young lady eyes met eyes sparking away the love. After few meetings boy proposed the girl. Like an average woman she doubted her laziness, to prove his mantle she asked him to go on a voyage of salt trade.
In African countries there is a tradition if a young man crosses Sahara on journey of salt trade he is considered as mature enough to marry a girl.
So he left on the journey.
On his journey he had to fight with Rattle snakes, scorpions, thirst, heat and agony.
Many a times he wanted to retreat as he find himself not able and capable of taking this toil.
But will to get the girl kept him going to the destination. Every step in sand made him think that once I get there everything will be fine.
It is only a matter of 10-15 days after that every thing will be fine.
He started hating the sand. He started cursing the present time
But continued.
On reaching back to his village he felt a deep intense satisfaction "I am finally there, I have completed my journey, After all I did it."
He stood there and watched his foot prints which were spreading for hundreds of meters in sand. Again his heart betrayed him, his joy was gone, he thought "I have completed the journey but I think I enjoyed the journey more then the destination"
After all it was the journey that transformed me from a lazy guy to a suitable suite for the girl.
I haven't learned anything from destination. I have learned from Journey.
He went back to his footprints and carefully observed them.
He fall in love with his footprints. His mind spoke How these footprints be the worst time of my life, today I stand tall because of these footprints in sand only.
They will diminish with time.
But their mark on my character and life will live forever. More tougher the time is More Stronger the Man is.

So Called Leaders

2009-09-28T10:07:00.001+05:30

I have seen many people in my small life so far, Some were born leaders, some were designated to become leaders like Managers, Captains etc in the workplaces and playgrounds. Many time leaders are promoted from fellow workers on the bench mark of present performance. Is this the right criterion? May be I am a good team player but don't posses ability to Lead a team and when I am promoted to team leader I may not be able to make team perform resulting in frustration arising due to failure of expectations, what happens then leaders blame others for their own faults. To make the matter worst the performers of the team will not like to play anymore and may leave the team. Who is losing here? the team.
What I am trying to say is a good performer is not always a good leader.
And leaders must be able to take and accept responsibilities of their wrongdoings.

Lost Happiness

2009-09-07T08:41:00.001+05:30

With the time things become obsolete and we need newness in life.
We construct and destruct.
From past 4 months construction is going on in my home. There are remains of leftover here and there in entire premises.
One day while going somewhere I saw those remains and thought when I was a kid these remains would have been my treasure house I would have indulged playing with them for hours and have felt happy, didn't have thought of other worldly and materialistic pleasures.
Today I have more means of entertainment then my childhood but still I get more bored and feel lonely. Don't find happiness for long in one thing.

Why?
May be I have lost my inner delight?

My Heart

2009-09-06T11:18:00.000+05:30

Once upon a time there was a hut. Hut was so small that many people seeing that wondered how one can live in it? It is too small. No one can stand easily in it leave a side the matter of living for whole life.
For many years that hut was left abandoned people just passed by and ignored it.
One day a person who was simple and sober as innocent as an infant saw the hut with normal curiosity and entered inside.
To astonishment inside that hut was larger then World's best hotels and palaces.
There were all luxuries of life, house was warm and cozy enough to keep that person inside for forever, it had lush green gardens and beds of white shining marble and all amenities which one can and can't think of, that person wondered if this place was so good why it was isolated for so many years?
Why didn't people dared to enter and check?
The projection of small hut was an illusion to safeguard the palace from mean and bad people.

I learned to love someone.

2009-07-28T12:20:00.000+05:30

We all love people in our life. We love our parents, grandparents, siblings, friends, teachers, colleagues and neighbors also.
But we all wait for that someone special in our life.
I used to see that after finding that someone special people go crazy about him or her.
They do things out of extra ordinary for ordinary people.
I used to think that they are wasting their time and resources on all such things like chocolates, flowers and gifts.
But the line I mentioned above "extra ordinary for ordinary."
I realized and felt when I fell in love.
My first opinion was not wrong I have seen lovers being shattered in love, sacrificing their occupation, home and careers for love.

As You say every coin has two sides.
Love had its negative aspect,

For me it came with positive Aspect, transformed my life. My skills were more sharpen. I learned to live, earlier when I went to a trade fair or to a shop, concentrated only on things important to me.
Moved out as soon as I finished my business. One day I went to shopping with my someone special, after finishing my business she wanted to see other goodies also (general female tendency) Due to love and affection you can't force her to leave with a good compromise to heart and mind I followed her to all shops and counters. To make the matter worst My opinions were asked about different products, colors, shades and Patterns (Worst part is I was least interested in all those cuckoo stuff.)
Now comes the best part she was not at all interested in buying any of those goods at that moment.

What shall I do, shout?
Be angry?
No you don't have permission to all this.
Why Because you love her, you have to love her as she is.
After
Coming home I realized it was all good.
My overall experience was more colorful, rich and vivid.
She with her love added more beauty to my life.

secret supporter

2009-07-26T12:38:00.000+05:30

Once upon a time there was a pregnant lady whose labors just started.

She was married to an average middle class family and came from an average middle class family. After few hours of terrible pain she gave birth to a boy child. Who was loved and adored by everyone in the family. The boy was an average child but received an extra ordinary affection as compared to his cousins. In a span of 10 to 12 years people started taking him as a heir to little family legacy which was not very large.

His other cousins were not fortunate enough to have that small legacy. This created envy in the minds of the boy’s aunts and uncles.

Then started an era of conspiracies which resulted in depriving the poor chap every thing he was supposed to own. Love, care and social relations.

The person who was born with almost everything lost everything. All this happened at an age of 9 to 20.

Those 11 years snatched from him his right to good education, society. He was boycotted from all good things in life.

He went on doing things he was supposed to do and the things he was not supposed to do. At the time of life when you expect youth to play games and enjoy life. He was doing a self owned business. He was battling his wit with all the veterans of the game. Who did supported him at first but later cheated on him. All these bad things in life didn’t allowed him to do unethical things I believe this was the legacy he had.

At an age of 23 -24 he was defeating the experts of trades in mind games, won heart of great and mighty. Who supported him for whom he was.

There is a quotation,

When you thin k you know all the answers to the questions, life changes your question paper.

This was either his irony or boon. Whenever he succeeded in a single field circumstances didn’t favored him and his opponents were changed.

If you fight an eye to eye it is a fair game but when you fight an eye to ear the play is different, that is the beauty.

He had a competition with people who were miles ahead of him. This competition brought best out of him.

He had a feeling of vengeance burning in an isolated corner of heart which was never discovered by his friends, family or colleagues.

He eyed the apogee everywhere and metalled him.

The worst cases helped him achieve the best. A hatchback prompted him to sedan, sedan for suv and suv for sports car. Finally the day arrived when he had everything he could think of.

Pride possessions of the world, loving and capable family and Social recognitions.

That moment made him think I lived my all life in a spurt.

Like racing a race.

Achieved everything I goaled at,

But today my heart betrays me he is urging me to leave all this and go to journey of unknown, I want to seek him.

My secret supporter, my best buddy of worst times.

Now it is the right time to rendezvous him.

mother nature.

2009-07-24T13:02:00.000+05:30

I have to travel a lot.
I mostly travel to small cities and towns whenever I am traveling I get a good view of the nature in natural way in fields and forests.
I saw it in winter, spring and summer but now when I saw it after first few rains I was so deeply absorbed that I forgot who I am.
All hills covered with greenery, rivers smiling with water and aqua life,
Suddenly I was having water in my eyes and my heart was full of emotions.
I was feeling like a very close blood relative of mine has successfully recovered from a deadly disease like cancer or something else.
I can’t describe it in words. The feel was unexplainable but I think I realized why we call it mother nature.

Discipline a virtue of mind.What about my heart?

2009-07-24T12:23:00.000+05:30

We all talk about ethics, discipline, rules, system and laws.
From where all these things originated?
I think form the deep and content thinking.
Thinking is a mental work.
One have thought a lot and imagined the world without all these.
Might have observed also and finally set a set of instructions to be followed upon.
I don’t see anything wrong in it.
Ethics, laws, rules and system are utmost compulsory but there are some instances in everyone’s life where there is a conflict between discipline and desire.
I am here not discussing about un-natural desires like destruction, killing and may be acts of sexuality.
But the things which are governed by heart.
Suppose in a school with a beautiful and lush green Garden there is a rule of not touching the flowers or we can say staying away from them.
Management earlier thought that this kind of rules will help in maintaining and sustaining the beauty of garden.
The school is known for the best development of children.
One day on a sunny morning of spring a very bright student who is pride of the school is walking by the garden and happen to see a newly developed rose bud.
Mesmerized by the beauty he walks near to it, he keeps on gazing it finally, nature at its best spells its magic on the student. He wants to pluck the flower off. No his education, his values doesn’t allow him to do so. He just touched it and smelled the flower.
This act is caught by a teacher, and he is summoned to the principal.
What you will do if you were in principal’s chair?
Yes he has gone against the rules of the school.

Will you be strict?

Will you punish him so bad that no other child will ever dare to think of garden?

Huh?

I think I shall reward him he is a true disciple of school who knows how to balance between desire and discipline at a reasonable rate.

I believe in going out and doing what the heart says.

Evil or Angel

2009-05-16T07:24:00.000+05:30

In this Article I am going to write about a problem which 40-60% Guys face in their life.
We have a common tendency of judging a book by its cover not by its contents.

Whenever a boy is being considered for a marriage proposal by a girl and her family or in any other instance like of making friend etc.
People will definitely search for habits and lifestyle of a guy, whether he smokes or not, consumes alcohol or not?
If answer to any of the above question is found yes. Then with immediate effect the image of the fellow is seen as a bad boy with dark heart unfit for a relationship.

And a new search is started for a person who is not having so called bad habits.

But the big question is are we considering the nature of person?
Are we considering the character by habits?
is it necessary that a person free from any kind of bad habits will definitely have a good heart and mind, no wrong intentions of fraudulent and cheating?

This make us think doesn't it?

So what I want to say is never judge a book by its cover.
Many a times cover can be wrong but book is always right.

How to learn?

2009-05-14T16:49:00.000+05:30

I respect Women

2009-03-28T19:26:00.000+05:30

Few days back in a seminar I saw a girl presenting a presentation which was far more advanced then the situation. I was a little aware of her family background. Which goes like this:-

She came from a little conservative kind of family enviorment.(Advancement of girl child not considered right.)

She is pretty, and I have some idea what are the drawbacks of being pretty for decent girls.(Girls will surely understand the point.)

Lack of approach to facilities.

Now what made me wonder was that inspite of facing all these hindrances she made a wonderfull presentation.
I started imagining the problems and struggle faced by the womenkind in India especially. And their fight and victory over the struggle mesmerized me.
And hence from that point of time onwards I have started respecting women more then anything and anytime in past.

Thank You

2009-02-20T14:49:00.000+05:30

Here I wish to express my thankfulness to all.
First of all I am thankful to my parents for providing me their love, affection, warmth, shelter, food, clothing, education and their name. Then next in the list are my all teachers, my friends as teachers, my colleagues as teachers, my seniors as teachers, my juniors as teachers and my competitors as teachers.
I am thankful to all those people who are doing there own work and still helping us out people who are working in FMCG, durables, and auto or other industries’ manufacturing plants right from laborers to senior management for bringing out the wonderful goods for our use.
I am also thankful to all the great scientists and inventors who are continuously working for making our lives better.
This brings me to a point that what would have happened if we didn’t had Thomas Alva Edison or Michael Faraday. Sir Isaac Newton had not observed the gravity.
Big things would have been missing.
We remember those people of old times because of their good deeds.
But why the future generations will remember us?
What is the history we are making?
Most of the nations are spending a considerable amount of money on development of science and technology. But huge amount is also spent on defense budget making the weapons of destruction.
How amusing it is our great grandfathers thought of improving life and we are thinking of destroying life.
If we look back to past few years we find that we have more accidents the innovations history is all in color red. WTC attack, Operation Enduring Freedom, Attack on Iraq, Anthrax Envelopes, London Bomb Blasts, Mumbai Blasts, Jaipur Blasts and recently done Mumbai 26/11.
I have a strong feeling that our children will consider us lunatics who were busy fighting.

Valenitne's day And Love

2009-02-14T09:19:00.000+05:30

I know why we celebrate Valentine's Day and How we celebrate it and what are the intientions of people to celebrate it.
This is the festival of love and what a lovely festival?
But I don't like people to fight over love.
Stopping couples to enjoy this festival, with comments like "Valentine's Day is good but not our culture we respect this day but we will not let it be celebrated"
If one respect this festival then you cannot use violence.
If people say Birthday of Mahatma Gandhi is a day for celebrating non violence then why we can not celebrate valentine's day with love and non violence?
Lets Make it Love not the Violence.
Love your parents,
Love your neighbour,
Love your colleagues,
Love your seniors,
Love your Juniors,
Love your competitors,
Love your enemy,
Love your Lover,
Love your Spouse,
Love your siblings
Love your children,
And MOst IMporatantly

"LOVE THY LOVE YOURSELF"

The Unreal Reality shows

2009-01-31T08:59:00.000+05:30

Yesterday I was watching a reality show where participants started alleging each other an language started to become bad and then worst.
And viewers were enjoying it to the fullest.
Is the mental level fallen too low or our apettite for entertainment has become so huge we are willing to accept any bullshit for its satisfaction?
If what we sow and so we reap is true then we are responsible ourselves for the lost of harmony from our homes because we are letting those bad energgy vibrations enter our homes by the way of a third class TV Show.

Legislator Killed Engineer

2008-12-28T16:17:00.000+05:30

Legislators & Politicians Are Indian James Bond; As they got license to kill.

I wanna be an airborne ranger wanna live the life of dangers
The above written line is taken from U.S. Air force song.

But I would like to modify it a little :-

Mujhko bana na hai raajneta taaki main mar sakoo har maa ka beta.

Disturbing naa?
Obscene?

Go ahead sue me in the court for dirtying the image of politicians in India.
Yes this can be done to a common man.
But hey hey: Don’t touch me You don’t know who I am?
I have got big politician links.
I will be free If I STEAL some thing.
I will be free If I SLAP somebody.
I will be free If I RAPE some ITEM.
I AM FREE I TORTURED SOMEONE TO DEATH.

What happens normally on similar incidences?
A lot of media voice initially then new issue, New HOT CAKE for Prime Time news.
Today One engineer has died. I have many future engineers in the colleges in masses.
Many more Deaths and Much more Prime time news.
Here we discussed the supply of raw material for news what about processing?
More Young, Energetic Aspirants for the Job Openings of Legislators are also there. Many are experienced and many have done their PGs from esteemed Police Station of Country in the specialization of Torturing.

Do this sound like well heard earlier?
What shall I do?
What shall the Youth Do?
We are seeing, witnessing the same old story from the many years in past.
This is the only reason new faces and same old story again and again.

Please Media, Please India do something and Please Please And Please do something effective no violence then we are worst then them, May be boycott all people wherever you find them, Let them realize they have done something which can haunt them. Don’t let the incident be lost in history.

Non Cooperation Movement

2008-12-08T21:31:00.000+05:30

here I am not talking about the movement initiated by shree Mahatma gandhi but I am talking about the lack of cooperation we indians are having.
yesterday while travelling by train in the general compartment what i generally observed that a fellow passenger was not willing to share at all a small room of psace with another one why?
we tend to be very cooperative in our daily life suddenly become so defencingly offensive in life?

What is the real cause of Mumbai terror Attacks?

2008-12-02T09:39:00.000+05:30

Negligence by government?
Intelligence Failure?
More reaction time taken by Authorities?

I don’t think so.

One thing is evident that terrorists were having local links. Otherwise the entire conspiracy was impossible to be executed.
Local links with whom?
Local outlaws, who got the things done by money or threats.

What leads to development of these local criminals?
Who is responsible for all of this?
Any Guess work?

I know everything.
I know the names also. Precisely and doubtlessly.

The culprits are:-

YOU AND ME.
ALL INDIANS TOGETHER.

You find it disturbing why?
Our coward ness, Ignorance, and Forgiveness. Is the root cause for every wrong thing. Go in the past. When we as a child attend schools and find one person bullying other, what is our response?
I want to be safe so I will not mess with bully,
Why shall I help; victim is not my friend,

This happens not only in childhood, as a grown up what steps we are taking to improve the society? Nothing
What an average indian is doing when he sees a chain snatching happening?
He keeps mum forgets the entire accident in 15 minutes.
You think you are minding your own business?

No you are simply hiding your coward ness, your timid behavior.

Where are those macho men at such incidents? Who want to impress women with their well developed physiques. Who exaggerate a lot about there brave ness.
Disappeared from planet. Or they are simple posers?

If you are hurt with words written above. Do yourself a favor forget this article this was never written. As you are going to forget the Mumbai Attacks.
If you can’t then next time don’t be a spectacular at any wrong doing.
Your silence at a child being bully is very costly to the nation.
You give birth to small criminals who support and nurture the big events

Lord of Small issues.

2008-11-25T20:07:00.000+05:30

How many people want to do something big in life?
I think almost every human being once in his lifetime thinks of doing some thing big in his life. Not only thinks but initiates a few steps also but after sometime this thought process is abandoned. Why? because of two factors broadly. Lack of commitment and habit of making issues out of small less important things. Here we will be talking about the later cause.

I have often seen people wasting life over immaterial points especially ladies. For example keeping a track of activities of neighbors, couple quarrelling over T.V. shows and then complaining about poor understanding between each other, many examples are there but the point is always before starting an argument please give a thought to this that what will be the outcome?
Is it worthy enough to fight or create a bitter moment in your relationships?
What is the big benefit?

With and Without Goal: Power of a mere thought.

2008-11-23T23:19:00.000+05:30

Till Nov. 2007 I had no idea what goal setting can do for you.
Before this time I was letting life to choose things for me. I had experimented a few times that if I want to achieve something in my life then I can achieve it. Simply by having a desire I can get it fulfilled. One simple thought has power of all the world. One thought can make big changes in the world to get my single desire fulfilled. In Nov. 2007 I kept a goal of a promotion in the next year but that goal was not time bounded.
But I was promoted in 2008 and I kept a time bounded goal I was astonished that it was achieved on time. I read a lot about goal setting and powers of subconscious mind. But I never had faith and belief in all these stuff. But my own past experiences had taught me how to use these powers work for you. Now every desire is fulfilled. By having a simple thought world can be changed.

The People I admire – 4

2008-11-19T15:39:00.000+05:30

What persistency and consistency can do for you?

These two qualities can rise you in eyes of management, shorten the height of your hurdles and make your life easy to some extent.

Fateh Singh was a cashier in my team. At the time of his appointment he was worst then dust. Making frequent mistakes was the habit of this man. My colleagues used to curse, scold and punish him in the hardest manner. His mistakes were hard to cover. He committed mistakes in preparing invoices, entering the names of customers, counting the stock etc.. Many a time he was on a verge of getting fired but fortunately he was able to save his job.

I think inside his mind and heart was a fire burning which made him improve on himself. Gradually rate of his mistakes started declining. Every day was a new challenge for his self. He was fighting with him self to improve his concentration, efficiency and his skills.
He started taking initiatives in work. Stepped in front for new assignments and whenever someone makes an initiative help is always available for him well in advance.

He wanted to keep his body and mind busy. Thus he took care of all small things, preceded to next after completion of first. Resultant of this activity was tremendous gain of knowledge. His co-workers who used to mock him started looking towards him for his expert guidance in their assigned tasks. Me and my colleagues who used to except him from important works now accepted and depended on him for the jobs which were at some time far more complicated then his capability to do them.

The most important point I am trying to make here is that he didn’t ran from his mistakes and work, in spite of all odds against him he was always present on his job and was punctual in life.
At last what I have to say is this that he transformed himself from worst to best.

The People I admire – 3

2008-11-18T09:00:00.000+05:30

The smiling Face

Here I am writing about a remarkable person.
His name is Bharat Lal Sharma. This fellow worked as Assistant Pharmacist with me.
He has only one quality that is very rare to find.

He is always smiling.

If he arrives on time still he is smiling and if he arrives late still he is smiling. Good Sale is there he smiles and if bad sales are there still he is smiling.

He completes work on time, he will smile. Otherwise also he will smile.

Looking at him gives you a real life inspiration no matter what may happen one should always smile.

People I admire most - 2

2008-11-16T12:08:00.000+05:30

The People I worked with and really admire.

Next is the name of a very kind hearted, hardworking sincere gentleman. He is a hardcore professional not by his working habits but by his attire also. In this body of a hardcore professional lies a very emotion driven heart.
The name of this gentleman is Mr. Sandeep Malhotra.

He is a Business Development Manager in a retail chain and luckily I was in his team.
In my first gaze on him I identified that he is going to be some what extraordinary. And time proved me right.

I have seen him working 12-13 Hours a day on feet continuously, 7 days a week without any holiday for a period of 6-7 months.
Me and all my young colleagues looked towards him for courage, enthusiasm and most of the time with astonishment also. We found ourselves unable to work for long durations. But he will always be standing and working, now how you will ask for a holiday from a boss who has not taken a holiday his self from a long time.
He will always come to our retail outlet stand in the middle of the outlet and gather everyone with seeking only one question:-

“Beta dhandha Kitna Hua?”
(How much sale is there?)

He will start his day with only one question “Beta Aaj Kitna Dhandha Karoge?”
(How much are you planning to sale today?)

After some time you will receive a phone call from him and again the question will be “Beta dhandha Kitna hua” (What is the sale by the time?)

This irritated a lot at that time BUT THE BIG BENEFIT WAS THAT THESE QUESTIONS KEPT THE MIND FOCUSSED ON THE PRIME OBJECTIVE OF SALES.
And in this way mind didn’t wandered here and there we were able to yield more out of ourselves.

In true sense he is my mentor and his scolding, and continuous pressure made me a super salesman from sales man

The People I worked with and I really admire

2008-11-08T08:48:00.000+05:30

This post and some up coming posts will be tributes to few people whom I worked with for some time. And the qualities in them I aprreciated.

In my past 5 years of sales career I had opportunity to work with many people but few of them were really distinguished gentlemen.

To start with I would like to mention the name of Mr. Pyare Lal Meghwal. By occupation he is a teacher but this man has got courage to salute. He had a dream to be prosperous in life and like a normal human being he was also not satisfied with his mere salary. He has children whom future is waiting financial assistance, wife looking forward to cook meals in kitchen of a self owned house. He owned a business of manufacturing footwear. After sometime he was approached by some people and they discussed a multilevel marketing plan. He was fully convinced with the plan and sold his footwear manufacturing business. He worked on the plan with full discipline, moral, integrity, ethics, dedication and devotion. He simply had a belief that if gain more knowledge I will be more successful. If I help people a lot I will be in turn helped and benefited. Therefore he was already to help people and learn more. He never lost a chance to gain knowledge. He spent a huge amount on literature and audio visual aids for learning. This man has got a very good collection on subjects like Sales, Positive mental attitude, Powers of sub conscious mind, public relations, goal settings and achievements. But he was unable to realize that to be successful you are not supposed to know each and everything about the mankind but you are supposed to practice in real world what you know about mankind. You have to keep a smart goal. The people he was helping were very shrewd they utilized his kindness for themselves. Resulting poor performance in business, failing to achieve those most sought after dreams. But still he was enjoying the company of a few good people who were his well wishers and guided him rights and wrongs of life that kept his wagon on track.
Unfulfilled dreams hurt like sharp arrows and to make the matter worst people start comparing themselves with others often we hear quotes like “he started later then me but he is ahead of me”, “oh! He has such a dashing and dynamic personality he will wash me away in the competition”, “friends he is not smarter then me but he is more successful then me, must be using some unethical practice” all these thoughts mixed together with pain of falling short on self expectations prepares a fertilizer which promises a rapid growth of enthusiasm mind starts running on adrenalin. The influence of this wine doesn’t filters out of blood in hours this takes months and often individuals are provoked to perform something extraordinary. This state of mind if used wisely yield positive results like in cases of Olympic winners practicing day and night, scientists studying timelessly consequently gaining. But if a little mistake is made or sanity is compromised more then what is required.

People are doomed.

Same thing happened in this case. He joined some other not so good multi level marketing company. Same with all his goodness here he worked day and night he kept a SMART goal. The error was too much compromise with sanity. Instead of going through the long ethical route, short unfair route was insisted upon. He took loans from banks to invest in his plan under the names of several other people thinking once I reach the comfort level the payouts will be so huge that all loans will be repaid.
Unfair practices give unfair results. On reaching the comfort level more money was needed to maintain the comfort level and payouts in hand were not so huge then the expectations.
To meet the rising needs of money material rewards were thought to be sold. He won a car and wanted to sell it, the buyer took car for test ride and died in accident. Due to some misunderstanding buyer’s family sued a court case on my friend asking for remuneration of dead person. More money was required now nothing to left to sell. More loans were raised. Resulting a simple teacher was paying away a good portion of his salary in loans for nothing other expenses were a still same rent, ration, phone, electricity and petrol. Big financial crisis, children growing and with their age was growing their financial needs like education, daughter’s wedding fund etc.
What you will do if you are in this situation many go insane; people will poison themselves or their families, cheat and steal from others. Send wife and children to live with other relatives. Seek financial assistance from blood relations or in laws.
But I am proud to right He did nothing like this. As a normal human being he is coping with the circumstances. He accepted the situation as it was and has courage to look into eyes of his money lenders. He cut on his expenses and trying his level best to pay off all the debts. And the lesson he learned was ethical ways have their own advantage

How Money Is Made When Cow eats Grass?

2008-11-05T08:54:00.000+05:30

In this article I will share an incidence of a farmer who made money by making his own cow eat the grass he himself grew.

Everyone will be thinking that normally a framer grows grass only to feed his animals then what is so special about it?

Few years back I was very much worried about the happenings of my life I was not getting the desired results from my efforts in different spheres of life like business, studies and family.

So I visited a neighbor of mine who practiced astrology. After examining the birth planet chart, observing the lines in my palm, making some large calculations and consulting some big books of astrology he told the remedy that I should feed cows grass every Wednesday and it will be far better if the color of cow is red or brown. My next question was where I will find such a cow and grass at the same time to feed?

He told me that every morning near the garden of my colony there comes a farmer with bunches of grass which he sells at a rate of Rs.2 for a bunch. And searching a cow is not a big trouble you may find cows roaming here and there in the morning hours.
On the next Wednesday morning I took a 2 Rs. Coin in my hand and went to the garden. Yes there was that farmer I purchased a bunch of grass and paid the money. Now the question was COW the MOTHER. But cows were tied near the walls and fences of the garden. Cows of all ages young or old were there. Cows of all colors black, white, grey and red were there, people came and fed the cow of their choice or as prescribed by their astrologer.
Ok now the task was very easy I just had to travel a few steps to the colony garden, grass and cow both were available.
In early days all these things appeared normal to me but one day this question came to my mind. A grass vendor is here to sell the grass nothing wrong with this, but who brings cows here every morning, to whom does these cows belong?
I asked the grass vendor who was about 15 years old about the owner of cows. Answer was sir I don’t know. I patiently waited there up to 12 noon. A woman with rural looks ageing around 40 arrived and took away the cows she paid no attention to the grass vendor. After a few minutes vendor also left his 90% inventory was turned into cash, which was a normal phenomenon. I followed him after walking 2 kilometers he reached his home and to my astonishment the cows were standing there. Lady who took away the cow was preparing meals. In some proportion of his fields he raised grass to feed his cows.
What normally happens is a farmer rears cows to sell milk and other dairy products, cow dung is used as fuel and farmers grow grass in their own fields to feed the cows no commercial intention here. But this fellow was a little smarter he knew people want to feed cows in order to have some good deeds written in their life accounts. They will be buying grass and searching cows to feed them but if he took his own cows and grass he had a chance to make a little money therefore he took his cows with him every day. And people like me were feeding his cows his grass and he was making additional money.

Compassion on Sale contact Roadside Vendor.

2008-11-03T00:25:00.000+05:30

As a student of Sales and Marketing Management we often study the sales cycle, vis.

Prospecting, Approach, Approach talk, Identifying needs, Presenting Solution, Objection handling, follow ups, Close and last The After Sale Service

By largely once in a lifetime we buy compassion from a roadside vendor; who has never ever heard of all these terms. But still he is expert of the sales cycle.

All of these vendors don’t run showrooms or shops; they are far behind from simple kiosks also

He or she might be illiterate or at least capable of counting Currency only.

He or she is not well dressed or well groomed like an M.B.A. sales Executive. They may take a bath in months.

These vendors don’t enjoy good health also and most of these vendors are physically handicap. But their ratio of Shot and Kill is much more precise then a Sniper, and Revenue generation is unimaginable.

They sell compassion in all and every season at a same a rate despite of whatever the market conditions are there. Their efficiency increases with every Sales Call.

Got the point? Who are these Vendors?
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Beggars……The ultimate Compassion selling machines.

Here I am talking about those special Beggars who search their customers and observe the prey closely before attacking. Not the ones who keep their Cassettes Running all the time.

And how do they sell?

Prospecting:
They will closely observe each and everyone in the mob, Height, Weight, Age, Clothes, Attitude, Make and Model of Phone or Vehicle, Body language, Surroundings, Before approaching the prospect they will closely observe you. and will do your Complete C.T. Scan And M.R.I. test with his own eyes. This fellow is so much experienced that by merely looking they can tell how much money someone is carrying in wallet.

Approach and Approach Talk:
If your looks or the prospective information tells about your religion then he will initiate his approach talk with the elements from Your Religion like
To Hindu Fear OF God, Goddess.
To Muslim In the name of Allah or Prophet, Need fund for pilgrimage to local shrine.
If you seem to family man or woman he will try to sell you a sad story of his spouse or children’s sickness.
In short Approach talk changes with the customer.

The next three points of Need Analysis, Presenting Solution and Objection Handling are not at all required because sales talk itself is so strong that he comes quickly to the next step that is Follow Ups. See a person low on literacy can make a better strategy then any other competent and Highly qualified Sales Professional

Follow Ups:
This fellow will stick to you like stamp to envelope until and unless you pay him or in other words purchase his wares of sympathy, compassion or religious Dedication. Hats’ Off to their Zeal for making those rigorous and fearless follow ups. I don’t expect this kind of commitment from an executive of our latest Nokia N or E Series Operating Generation.

Close:
You had enough of him you cursed him but still he is not moving you think it is better to pay him off, reach for your wallet take out a coin of Rs.1 Or 2 try to handover him but to the surprise he refuses to take and ask for more money a 10 Rs. Note is what he is expecting from you. All this hardship deserves this much money. To cut the crap you gave him 2 Two Rs. Coins or 5 Rs . straight forward.

Look he just doubled his yield. Standing Ovation is required for such a performance

Now at the end of the story I will talk about the After Sale Service
You paid the beggar, transaction is over your money is now his property. And his emptiness is your mind’s burden.
Where is the scope of after sale service?
But not like selfish sales people after receiving money you will be showered with lot of blessings from his side, You may call it Value Added Service also.

These guys earns so much money that they can Loan some money to good financial institution to meet the credit or liquidity crisis.

Moral of the story to earn money talent is required not the qualification

Am I Really Free Today, No discrimination in the world?

2008-10-31T23:13:00.000+05:30

Two days back my friend me and a friend of my friend were discussing the contents and publishing of our reiki website.

My friend’s friend asked us why we are charging double fee for from foreigners.
This will give foreigners an impression of discrimination on the grounds of color.

We explained that foreigners require special environment like A.C., Filter water, Language Guide and other petty expenses are more.

I got his point in no time and we redrafted the fee.

People outside India make big claims of non practice of any and all kind of discrimination. They consider discrimination a sign of uncivilized world.
Civilized world they created granted right of freedom to every human being.

Especially in American and European Countries. They say all humans are created equal.
Equal in eyes of law and state.

Agreed

It is too good those people are very open and broad minded; consider all humans their fellow brothers and sisters.

My simple question is :-

Why Gautam Gambhir the good Indian Test Cricketer is banned for one whole match and Watson is charged only 10% match fee?

when the dispute was raised by aussie side.
It was them who started the fight.
Gambhir just reacted.

They can do whatever they like and we can’t even react, oppose and defend ourselves.

Which broad mind ness these people are talking about or there definitions, laws and principles may change as and when they desire.

Is this the civilized world they have created?
Or just over pretending?

Watson and Gambhir are equal in eyes of law and state?
I hope not !!

Leave this aside what we Proud indians doing in our country itself?

Can we gaze in oue collars and find ourslef clean under the sleeves?
Happenings of the country in past few days are shamefull.
Thrashing and fighting eachother on the basis of residing state or religion?

we are worst then rest fo world.

The indian Blood has lost pain for its fellow indian blood.
Awake or once again some body else will make fool of you and me and we will be slave once again.